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Worry Beads

Published March 28, 2009 @ 12:02AM PT

Worry Beads
I bought three strands of worry beads in Greece, one each for the administrative assistants who help me in untold ways at work. When I took the beads out of my luggage to show my parents and Charlie last weekend, Charlie----eyes wide---reached for the strands of olive and reddish-brown beads, and was soon swinging them about and running his long fingers over and over their smooth surfaces. A third strand, in a brilliant translucent blue, with a tassel and a few eye beads intermixed with the blue, was left on the carpet---somehow the neutral colors appealed to Charlie, who's previously been drawn mostly to blue, green, and bright colors.

The beads are readily findable at most every souvenir stand in Athens and in the other places in Greece we visited. Charlie liked his beads so much, last night he placed them in the prized position beside the pillow on his bed. The two worry bead strands snaked around each other, close to Charlie's head.

Worry beads--- they're just the right size to hold in one's palm. Too big for a bracelet, they can be slung around the wrist. They seem to provide just the right amount of sensory reinforcement: There's a coolness to the beads, and it's very pleasant (as I've been discovering) to roll the beads around in your palm. Some beads are round, some oval with subtle notches. Rolling them around in one's palm is a different motion than squeezing a stress or squishy ball, both of which Charlie's had many of. And they're not too large to be too much to carry, and not too small so that, if misplaced, they elude detection in the crack of the couch cushions or behind a bookshelf.

If only I'd bought a dozen or so strands of beads. I should have realized they'd be a fitting gift for Charlie, in more ways than one.

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  1. Judy T

    I don't know if they're the same kind, but a quick search on ebay came up with a bunch of greek worry beads for sale - maybe you could find some that would work for Charlie!  Or as substitute gifts ... :D

    Posted by Judy T on 03/28/2009 @ 05:07AM PT

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  3. Regina Claypool-Frey

    Well, I see that Charlie chose his souvenir gifts from the trip [smile].

    How dumb of me--I've never even heard of worry beads before, but they do sound like something soothing.

    Wikihow has instructions on how to make worry beads, and you have the advantage of a template in the bonafide item.

    Posted by Regina Claypool-Frey on 03/28/2009 @ 09:42AM PT

  4. Kristina Chew

    Thanks! (_ efharisto_)

    I did a Google search still and the idea of making our own sounds very appealing......of course, one could also try to go back to Greece.........

    Posted by Kristina Chew on 03/29/2009 @ 08:33PM PT

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Kristina Chew

Kristina is a Classics professor in Jersey City, New Jersey, a blogger (formerly at AutismVox), a translator (of Virgil), and an advocate every day for her son, Charlie.

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